Monday, August 16, 2010

the power of a bonding session

i had an unexpected bonding time with one of my very good friends who i don't get to see often. every time i get to see her, there's always something to talk about, whether it be catching up on what's the latest about us or our other friends or sharing stuff about pets, bags and other things. but the in-between-stuff is the most substantial part of our talks. and it mostly involves stuff about life and how we are as women. the greatest thing about it is that i never leave empty-handed after these chats.

maybe God arranged this day for me to talk to her. after what i recently discovered which gave me a terrible heartache, it was comforting to know that she, surprisingly, understood. completely. no judgments and all. and i'm really grateful that she was there to listen. the things she told me were simple but powerful enough to leave an imprint, to make me feel ok the least is an understatement. it was a simple ideology that encompassed everything.

"if it makes you happy, if you know it makes you happy, go for it. regardless of what other people might say or think. it's not their happiness that's at stake, it's yours."

after all the trials she's been through, it's amazing how she has gained so much wisdom. and i'll always be grateful for unexpected moments like these with her.

all these things makes her even more wonderfully beautiful.

love you, ate p! :)

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